How To Achieve The Life Of Your Dreams: A Practical Guide by Bisila Bokoko

We all have dreams and goals that we want to achieve in life, such as having professional success, surrounding ourselves with people who inspire us, living in a heavenly place, or having the financial freedom we long for. But how can we make those dreams come true? In this article, I will share some practical tips that have helped me and will help you take the necessary steps to achieve the life of your dreams.

When we talk about manifesting the life of our dreams, we have repeatedly heard about the law of attraction, but does it really exist? This question has generated endless debates and doubts in many people. However, there is a phrase by Buddha that I love which invites us to reflect on this topic: “What you think, you will be. What you feel, you will attract. What you imagine, you will create.” These words contain the perfect combination of mindset, emotion, and imagination. Although some people do not believe in this law, it is undeniable that we have some power over our lives, and we should not resign ourselves to accepting any circumstance that comes our way. However, before going into details, it is necessary to know the importance of consistency. Remember that it is not enough to just believe in the law of attraction; we must also be persistent in our efforts to manifest the life we ​​want.

Now I will share with you a series of steps that have helped me through the years to achieve the life of my dreams:

1. Define what you really want

The first step to manifesting our dreams is to clearly define what we want. Often, we think we know what we want, and we even allow ourselves to be influenced by the expectations of others or by what we see on social networks, without stopping to reflect on what makes us truly happy. Think about it: When you achieve a goal, do you sometimes feel empty? If so, that’s because the achievement wasn’t really yours. For this reason, it is essential for us to determine what we long for and how we want to feel, since our emotions play a crucial role in the manifestation of our dreams. Connect with what really excites you and fills you with joy!

2. Focus on a plan

Once we have defined what we really want and how we want to feel, it is time to plan and take action. The Law of Attraction goes beyond fervently wishing for something and waiting for it to come true as if by magic. To make our dreams come true, we must work with dedication and discipline towards the materialization of our goals and have a clear plan that guides us towards our goal. To do this, we must create a list with the steps that will lead us to reach our goal. Think about your business or your profession. How much money do you need to invest? What career would you like to pursue? What job will allow you to achieve that financial goal you so desire? Where do you long to live? What kind of people would you like to surround yourself with? Answer these questions about your dream life honestly and then evaluate the actions and steps you need to take to get there. Take into account there will be unforeseen events that will impact your plan, but here is the key: you must be flexible and, above all, disciplined. Yes, discipline is what makes the difference, even more than motivation and passion.

Plan and focus on one thing at a time. Remember, as I always say: Think big, take small steps, learn fast. Do not let anything stop you! 

3. Meditate and find your inner space

We live in a world full of distractions that make it very easy to forget our goals, and staying focused can be a challenging task. For this reason, it is very important to find spaces of silence and tranquility that allow us to enjoy the present moment, and to achieve this, meditation is a great tool. Now, meditation can take many forms. It can include sitting on your mat in the lotus position, taking a few minutes to breathe consciously, or even enjoying a cup of tea while sitting on your sofa. The choice is yours! I invite you to find the form of meditation that best suits you and your lifestyle.

4. Act intentionally

In our busy, day to day lives, we sometimes get lost in the maelstrom of routine, acting on autopilot, going from one place to another without stopping to think about the reason for our actions, such as getting up early, preparing breakfast, taking the children to school, and getting stuck in traffic. Do you feel stressed just thinking about it? Now stop for a moment and ask yourself: What is my intention behind all this? What do I really want to achieve?

This is where intention is key; It is not about acting out of inertia, but about doing it with the determination to express our deepest desires. When we have a clear and determined intention, things begin to flow in our favor.

5. Use powerful tools

To feel and visualize what we want to achieve, there are powerful tools that can help us to open our minds. Below, I will share the ones that have worked for me throughout my life.

The first of these are the “Vision Board” or “Dream Board”.

At the beginning of a new year or close to your birthday, create your board. You can use photographs, clippings from magazines, images from the internet, or you can even create your own drawings with paint. Select the images you like the most and are similar to what you would like to achieve. The important thing is that you have fun while you create it and imagine the life you want. With this exercise you will work with your emotions, which are the most powerful tools that exist to fulfill dreams.

The second tool is a roadmap. Do you remember playing “treasure map” when you were little? Well, you can determine what you need to find that treasure, in order to get from point A to point B. Ask yourself, “How do I want to do this?” Take the time to write or think about what you need to do to get there.

The third tool that never fails is keeping a journal. Whether you write in the morning, in the afternoon, at night, or any other time, just write. Doing so helps us to think, to review a specific topic, and to keep our objectives in mind.

Remember that with determination, discipline, and focus you can make your dreams come true. Do not give up in the face of any obstacles and challenges that may arise. Trust yourself and your ability to achieve what you set out to do. You have the power to manifest the life you have always dreamed of!

If you have doubts or want to share with me what your last phenomenal manifestation was, leave me a comment and I will gladly answer you.


Bisila Bokoko

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